PARADOXES OF LIFE

The man who has to walk through the rain to hide his tears,suppress his sadness beneath his choked throat,travel in a crowded bus with high fever and in a state of dilirium at any cost  but without a seat to prove his masculinity,is also a human being like others.He may have to spend countless days in the police lock up along with other criminals on an alleged  charge of outraging the modesty of a female just on the basis of a complaint but without any evidence or prior investigation under the guise of a  highly biased law or may be subjected to venomous taunts by his wife for his incompetence of  not being able to satisfy the greed over the need and ultimately becomes a patient of depression.The society makes  fun of his sentiments, he is termed as hen pecked in case he gives equal status to his wife,may be termed as un smart if he is gentle and law abiding and again the same person is termed as bad in case he becomes unruly.
But the society fails to recognise that he is equally defeated and deprived like any other females.But above all he is a man and man only and his sorrows sufferings have to be  evaporated  just like inhaling the smoke of cigarette after cigarettes.The society will become adult only when the bad or good will depend not on genders but on its motives.Let all the die hard fans of feminists understand that as  all females  are not the symbol of goddess Durga,all men are not like Baba Ramrahim but there are persons who are like Barun Biswas  too. If at all it happens ,then that day may be celebrated as international men's day like international women's day.
Happy international men's day
Be not just a man or a woman ,but a human......